in my humble opinion

kstewrpc: Happy Birthday, Charlie. I’m glad you’re my sister...

Fri, 24 May 2013 23:29:10 -0700

Happy Birthday, Charlie. I’m glad you’re my sister because I don’t think anyone else could have put up with me. I love you and you are the only Lea Michele to me. I hope you find your Dianna soon. <3

-Elly

You’re the best sister that anyone could ever ask for, thanks elly, I love you <3

EVEN THOUGH I DON'T KNOW YOU HAPPY BIRTHDAY AND I HOPE YOU HAVE/HAD A GREAT/AMAZING/PERFECT DAY :))

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:21:00 -0700

Thank you for leaving a message anyway, love, I hope you have a lovely day too!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:17:34 -0700

Thank you love!

Happy Birthday, lovely! :)

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:09:27 -0700

Thank you, darling!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, CHARLIE. YOU DESERVE THE BEST.

Fri, 24 May 2013 13:02:22 -0700

Thanks for saying so, and thanks for the happy birthday, you’re awesome.

Happy birthday girl :) Hope you have a good one, cuz you deserve it.

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:46:15 -0700

Thank you, hon, I hope so too.

Miss seeing you on the dash!

Happy Birthday you gorgeous human being, you!

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:43:31 -0700

Thank you so much, Franky, you’re the best wagoneer.

HAPPY BIIRTHDAY LEA

Fri, 24 May 2013 11:38:00 -0700

Thank you, lovely.

fchelpers replied to your post: I love you. I miss you. Come back to me. I WROTE YOU! EVERY DAY! (I...

Thu, 23 May 2013 17:54:52 -0700

fchelpers replied to your post: I love you. I miss you. Come back to me.

I WROTE YOU! EVERY DAY! (I actually didn’t but I missed you every day so that should count right???) You’re still the only one for me. <3

can I be proud that i know that reference? my roomie made me watch that movie one day but yes missing me every day totally counts, a thought counts as a letter or something? goood because I’m still no good with maths and I just couldn’t measure up to that <3 I haven’t eaten subway in months (seriously it’s too much work to walk there)

I love you. I miss you. Come back to me.

Thu, 23 May 2013 17:44:46 -0700

I love you and miss you too, is that you, wife? You’re the one that left, I didn’t go anywhere. But hello darling please tell me the geometry kids haven’t wooed you away from me.

I saw things on my dash and decided it would be a good time to tell you if you're feeling a little down that you're my angel :`D

Thu, 23 May 2013 17:36:00 -0700

Hello sweetie, I’m doing okay, but this is very lovely, thank you. You’re an angel yourself, love.

jackofrph: by doing what you did, is crude. I’m sorry but now you’re just blind sighted to what is...

Thu, 23 May 2013 17:31:27 -0700

jackofrph:

by doing what you did, is crude. I’m sorry but now you’re just blind sighted to what is honestly there. I’m running out out of energy to respond with long, lengthy responses, but still. Rather than continue with this, because you’re just flipping it all around so that he’s the only one who is attacking and not a victim even though I saw your messages and have been reading what you’re saying about him, I’m just going to block you and tell him to stop responding to your utter bullshit.

I’m sorry this isn’t the response you wanted, but honestly, now you’re just trying to take your anger out on me or your feels rather, and I’m just not in the mood for it. I didn’t even read most of what you wrote, in fact, I only read the first paragraph and I’m sorry but I”m done with this whole thing being so public and frustrating. First, he’s made out to be someone he’s not now he’s being dubbed as a bully when he simply voiced his opinion.

ANd the fact that I’m sitting here standing up for him and responding, asking you all to just leave him ALONE. I am being respectful, I have not said anything rude, I just want you all to leave him alone.

I’m done with all of this, and you. Leave it be, please stop responding.Goodbye, and thank you.

- Elliot.

I do not know what messages you are referring to, if you mean my reblogs and the mentions of what he called us, I don’t see how that makes him a victim, if we did nothing but mention the various things that we have been called. He is not a victim.. I don’t see why I should be blocked when I was merely trying to have a conversation and when the person perpetrating hatred was Jack, but very well. I don’t see how my words are “utter bullshit”, but I guess you would like to see them as you would see them.

I’m not taking my anger of “feels” out on you, I was attempting to have a conversation about what happened and defend myself after it was suggested that I am something that I am not, or rather that Q’s friends as a whole are something that they/we are not. It is essentially bullying to say hateful things that are unwarranted about another individual, if you have some other definition of what bullying is, then that is an entirely different issue in and of itself.

I was merely trying to discuss what is clearly a problem, it wasn’t directed at you in the first place but you chose to respond for him and I felt the need to continue the discussion. If you would rather not have it, then I understand. Please ask Jack to refrain from being hateful or from mentioning people in such a horrible manner if he doesn’t like to be held responsible for his actions, if you could, or at the very least to be more respectful and kind with his criticisms. Thank you for taking the time that you did to attempt to discuss it, or clean up or whatever your objective was. Hopefully such an issue does not happen again.

jackofrph: By the way you’re acting, you’re not being humble, modest, or anything of the sort at...

Thu, 23 May 2013 17:09:00 -0700

jackofrph:

By the way you’re acting, you’re not being humble, modest, or anything of the sort at all. You’re being crude, and just down right terrible. Jack is sorry for what he’s done, and I’ve asked you kindly to drop it. Jack insulted your friend, yes, and your friend should be the one to confront him not you, or anyone else. I understand you’re trying to stand up for him but at this point, seeing as though he’s not responding to any of your messages, I am, this is just bullying and I feel the need to stand up for him. Your messages are degrading to him, and you mocking him in such a way is enough to leave very harsh bruises to his ego. The message you’re sending out to this community is that if someone doesn’t agree with something that you do, or finds you in any way a bitch or anything else of that nature, they are to be ridiculed and hated. Which is not right.

Jack, yes, did something wrong and he’s deeply sorry for it. But instead of allowing him to apologize, he claims that if he says anything like that, someone - I don’t know who - will just throw it in his face and say something along of the lines of “you should be sorry.” Which is the only reason he hasn’t written a formal apology. I don’t know what has happened with your group in the past, but I highly suggest you all look over what you’ve done to other people and review it. That’s why you’re not getting the respect you all probably deserve. Perhaps, rather than it being the majority who feels this way, it might be you. Once again, I’m sorry if this is offensive, I’m just trying to get to the bottom of it. Jack doesn’t deserve all of this harassment from your friend group. And if we’re being honest, I don’t blame him for disliking you based on your actions. If perhaps your friends had come to this in a more mature manner, I wouldn’t be so disappointed but I am.

Once again, Jack is sorry for the things he said, but from the way you guys are reacting he’s not the only one to say these things?

I don’t know, I may be wrong, but either way, I’d prefer if you all just left him alone about all of it.

- Elliot.

I am not being crude in any way.

Crude: Being in an unrefined or natural state; raw. 2. Lacking tact or taste; blunt or offensive: a crude, mannerless oaf; a crude remark.

As a matter of fact, I have been careful to act in a professional manner, again, save for the slight mocking tone in the gif and argument. Which if I may say, was only somewhat unconventional but was not completely outlandish or unprofessional. I was making a point about the comment made about our group. I don’t see why I’m not allowed to defend my friend when you are speaking to me rather than having Jack speak for himself. I am speaking on my own behalf, through my own blog, of my own accord. I am being responsible for the statements I am making. The message I am sending to this community is that we should attempt to be more helpful than we are hateful, not that others do not have a right to their opinion. I feel that there is a way to be constructive with criticism, rather than being hateful and calling out a person and spreading hate about a group of individuals that has worked to help this community. I in no way, shape, or form encouraged hatred toward Jack. I reblogged the post regarding the way we have been addressed to bring light to the unprofessional and simply unkind language used to refer to us.

Jack has yet to admit that he has done something wrong or to express in any way that he is remorseful, and I am not saying that he has to do that. If he truly feels that he is sorry and that he did not mean to be hateful and hurtful, then that would be of his own accord, and just because he feels that others would not take that seriously, it does not mean that they would react that way. If he is really remorseful, perhaps people will see that. I don’t see why we should all look at what we have done in the past, I personally have never been hateful toward another individual, I make it a point to be kind and courteous when I can, I don’t call people “bitches” or insult their graphic making ability or state to an entire community that they have their head “up their ass”. If you want to talk about degrading, then read the rant that was posted. I have no reason to rethink my conduct, because from the day that I started this account, I have used it to help others and attempt to encourage others to be helpful in a constructive manner. Perhaps we are not the ones that need to reevaluate our conduct. We are not harassing him, we are reacting to something that he posted.

Other people agreeing with something does not make it okay. If you knew Q and you understood her history as an RPC, perhaps then you could begin to create an argument for or against her, but building some sense of who she is from a group of hateful individuals is not the way to go about it. We would have preferred that he leave Q alone, that he left us alone, but he made that very hurtful post and continued to mock her friends. I’m being respectful to you and I was respectful in my message to him that was also answered by you, I just feel that it is unjust to do such things and not take any responsibility for it. Again, he’s not required to do so, I just don’t think that I should be made out to be something that I am not. Over a year ago, I started this blog to make a contribution the community, and I have done that however I can, but at no time did I call out an individual and hurt them because I felt that I had the right.

jackofrph: Asking you kindly to drop it. If you’re as humble as you say, you’ll respect my wishes....

Thu, 23 May 2013 16:49:07 -0700

jackofrph:

Asking you kindly to drop it. If you’re as humble as you say, you’ll respect my wishes. - Elliot.

Humble: Marked by meekness or modesty in behavior, attitude, or spirit; not arrogant or prideful.

I am humble, if you speak to anyone that knows me in person, or anyone within this community, they can tell you as much. I am meek and modest most of the time, I don’t speak out often, I don’t stand up for myself in most situations and I tend to avoid confrontation. However, being humble does not mean that I have to close my mouth and ignore the fact that my friend was insulted in such a manner, and that all of her friends were insulted in turn with this insistence upon calling us horrible things. Sometimes, when I’ve reached a point that it’s difficult to be quiet, I choose to speak out - particularly when I feel that my friend has been wronged. As it stands, I was not addressing something that you said, nor am I calling you anything horrible for coming in and defending him (as is often the case when we speak out). I am being respectful, perhaps there was a slightly mocking tone in my response to that particular post, but it was not hateful or disrespectful and it was only a reaction to the intensely hateful terms used to address us as a group.

onceupona-roleplay: Oh hey, that’s a new one. What’s the count now? Minions, flying monkeys,...

Thu, 23 May 2013 16:41:00 -0700

onceupona-roleplay:

Oh hey, that’s a new one. What’s the count now? Minions, flying monkeys, sycophants, bitches? I just want to make sure I got them all.

you forgot army - or the more popular “army of bitches”

last time I checked I wasn’t a female dog.

jackofrph: Whispers does anyone even like rpcgron or is it just her cliquey circle of bitches? hey...

Thu, 23 May 2013 16:36:48 -0700

jackofrph:

Whispers does anyone even like rpcgron or is it just her cliquey circle of bitches?

hey guise apparently we’re a circle of bitches

or…should I say….witches

I'm afraid to like your response to jackofrphswhatthefuckever because I don't want him to think I'm liking HIS post. Your response was ballin and I'm giving you props to it.

Thu, 23 May 2013 16:34:37 -0700

Thank you, I think? Haha. But I just feel that sometimes people tend to think it’s okay to post longwinded hateful rants about others without really considering what they’re saying, sometimes breaking it down helps. That and any hate is unwarranted hate.

jackofrph: There’s so many problems in this fucking community and you all add to it but these...

Thu, 23 May 2013 16:14:50 -0700

jackofrph:

There’s so many problems in this fucking community and you all add to it but these songs of bitches are the most rancid of them all I hope your parents are proud, real proud. You sit there and you say that you are helping when in actual fact all you do is fuck all, literally. A roleplay helper is someone that helps, not post random shit that nobody really cares about. This place was perfect a year ago before the whole queen bitches came in, and yes I will be mentioning them later. For now I will write how things were a year ago and then compare them to how they are now.

A year ago, nobody was better than anyone else, we all helped each other and we all got along, every single rpc that there was. No hate was in this community, none what so ever and we all sung songs of peace. No seriously, there would be videos on the dash everyday from a rpc telling another rpc that they loved them like wut. I know what you are thinking ‘But Jack, that is impossible, this place is filled with cunts now’ and yes, it is. However, I remember seeing a very long video from someone called Kayla to her friend Jessica about how much she loved her and couldn’t wait to see her.

Present day, this place is filled with creeps, jocks, bastards, wankers and stuck up bitches who think that they are better than you. WRONG! You are some bitch who sits there in their chair and makes people like you. There are very few rpcs out there who help people these days instead of posting random shit. Every single day I log onto the dash, I see hate in some form, no love or friendship.

Spot the difference?

Now onto the queen bitch. Let us start with the biggest one of all, rpcgron.

Now that bitch needs to get the fuck out or calm her fucking tits because in my opinion, everything changed when she arrived. Talk about having your head up your own arse, hers is so far up there, she can see her fucking fillings like wut. You are not helpful, you are not bright or good, you are a twat. let us list a number of reasons as to why. 1) Charging people for you to set up their roleplays, like really? If you really wanted to help, you wouldn’t charge. You are just some idiot who wants to make some money. 2) NOT HELPFUL! You do fuck all, literally. *Scrolling through your page* Cat picture, cat picture, compoud post, compound post, STAHP! 3) Stuck up. Like seriously, get that head out of your ass, it must be hurting sweetie. 4) Cliquey. “My coven”, really? Learn to stop being a self absorbed bitch and get on with being helpful. No wonder not many people like you.

Every single one of you need to start being helpful again instead of being idiots, like really. *Scrolling through the dash* Personal post, lolcat, video, video, personal, audio. And this goes on for miles. Being a rpc isn’t about being the best of the best, it is about helping people with their roleplays. Just help, it isn’t hard. Is everyone butthurt now? Good because that is what I wanted. Do you all hate me for telling the truth? Good, I hope you do. Oh and another thing, stop chasing the dick. When a male rpc comes on, everyone swarms him like flies around shit. Now feel free to send in some hate.

Let me just say that I am appalled that you would call out an rpc on your blog in such an unprofessional manner. Perhaps I’m not right in directly addressing this, but I feel that something needs to be said. You cannot crucify an individual that has worked within this community to help others, and what you are doing is generating more hate and encouraging others to join this hateful bandwagon.

1. People have every right to charge for things if they so wish. If others want to pay someone for their services, they can do so. Q is not forcing payment upon people, she is offering services for a price and people choose to comply with that. It is their decision to seek out her services specifically, and their decision to pay the price she sets. 2. She is helpful. It is her blog, and she has every right to post images of cats if she pleases. Others follow her because they wish to, and they can unfollow whenever they wish if they feel that the distribution of “personal” posts to “helpful” posts isn’t to their liking. The last time I checked, there was no set guideline to how many personal posts a person can make on an RPC blog, and while I feel that it can be helpful to post less personal things, sometimes a person feels like posting what they want on their blog - because it is their blog. 3. This isn’t even a valid argument, I’m not sure why you believe that Q is stuck up, but she is most definitely not, you did not expand on that argument in any way and merely told her to get her head out of her ass, which is rather disrespectful and completely uncalled for. 4. Having friends is not being cliquey. Yes, she does have a page on her blog with people that she is close to (and yes I happen to be one of the people on that list, and I am defending her because I am her friend and I feel that it is wrong to call out a person in this manner, so I’m doing it of my own accord), but that’s not a crime. Several people within this community have friends, or pages that show other RPC/Hs that they are affiliated/associated with, there is nothing wrong with that. “Learn to stop being a self absorbed bitch and get on with being helpful. ” In what way is having a list of her friends being self absorbed? She is praising others. And she is helpful when people come to her asking for help.

Also, I was here a year ago, longer than that even, and the community is indeed different, but I can say that the entire world of tumblr did not change when Q joined. I was already here for quite a bit and had been an active RPC when she joined, I was an active member and I can say that the entire system was not undermined or changed just by her arrival. You are giving her far too much credit, or rather giving far too much blame. Perhaps if you want to see people being helpful rather than posting things that are not helpful, you should begin by doing it yourself. Making a post that does not provide constructive criticism but instead encourages hatred and some unnecessary witch hunt of a contributing member of this community is not helpful. All you are doing is making everyone stop and focus on this issue, send her hate, and send you unwarranted praise for essentially bullying another individual. As I have said time and again, we cannot help the community and are only hindering those that need help when we hate on others.

okay I have to get to class, I’ll finish that gif hunt, answer any asks, and maybe open some...

Thu, 23 May 2013 13:41:55 -0700

okay I have to get to class, I’ll finish that gif hunt, answer any asks, and maybe open some review slots, when I get home.

There is never a good reason for sending someone hate, I’ll just say that flat out right now,...

Thu, 23 May 2013 13:29:00 -0700

There is never a good reason for sending someone hate, I’ll just say that flat out right now, if you think otherwise perhaps you should reconsider what you’re going into another person’s ask box for. Constructive criticism and hate are very different things.